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i'm actually happily married. to someone that jensen/dean reminds me of, like alot. so that's a good thing, at least i'm consistent!!

i haven't actually fallen for anyone in movie-tv-fandom at all since, like don johnson in the 80s. a long, long time ago. if that says anything at all.

and you know - i look at jensen boi-pix from DOOL days and think - umm... cute, sorta. and he was honestly a wierd-looking little kid, imho. but around the time he did DeVour? gunh. just whoa. and *now*? omg SEXX.

i guess i like man!Jensen and that's that. so i'll take the torch if that's what you're passing.... hee!

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He was kind of cute back then but far too twink

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Seriously, that's what I keep thinking - it's not like this is the first time a celebrity has been called fat (I also find it amazing that stuff like Wincest, smutty RPS, AUs in which Jensen is portrayed as a hooker or a drug addict, and other more troublesome parts of the fandom aren't even blinked at, while mentioning that he may have gained a few pounds is cause for crucifixion).

I think the biggest difference between fat!Jensen and fat!Wentworth is that SPN is a much bigger fandom, especially on LJ, with a lot more people to notice the talk of fat!Jensen and go batshit over it.

Edited Date: 2007-12-05 10:49 pm (UTC)

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He's still my TV boyfriend, mostly because I've been with him so long, I feel like I'm commited now. And sometimes the love comes back because I've been waivering on him like this since about midway through Season 2 and then he'll do something so adorable that I'm like fully back in the game for a couple of months.

I agree, he was cute on DOOL but not hot. But, I was much younger myself back then and thought cute was hot... or something.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, I'll share him. Which is something I wouldn't have considered doing a year ago. With the option to hand over full rights if I stumble upon a newer model TV boyfriend in the near future.

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well, that's awfully pleasant of you. and now that i've checked out your lj, we'll like, have to be friends, i think.

*hugs*

*thinks about how awesome 5 or 6 years of jensen would be*

hee!

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I actually did friend you, so feel free to friend back if you want.

Also? You're totally getting the better end of this deal because Jensen is only going to get hotter as he gets older. The idea of like 45 year old Jensen sort of makes my girly parts want to explode.

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45, eh? My "in his 40's" Jensen is kind of sleazy and picking up girls who are far too young for him in well, sleazy bars. My old man!Jensen love doesn't start till he's at least 60

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And really, all it takes is one person to totally bend it all out of whack. If one person saw the fat!Jensen posts and decided that they were offensive, they could post their own entry on how they just saw a really mean post in which a so-called fan called Jensen a fatass and said he was ugly or whatever else. And the thing about Smidgy's journal is that a lot of people know about it and she's got a ton of "friends." Whereas with Wentworth, the whole fat thing was mostly talked about by Elissa and Julia, and they're not so heavily-friended (or at least not back then they weren't).

So I guess it makes sense, but like you said, it's not like this is the first time, nor will it be the last, so I don't know why everyone's so belligerent about it. Especially, as you said, since there are far more outrageous things than that in fandom. What about non-con? What about underage sex? What about the incest, whether brothercest or incest between a father and son (which I think would be even more disturbing, and I know John/Dean and John/Sam fics gotta exist out there)? Calling someone fat? And not even in a mean way? That's nothing. Seriously, didn't these people notice how Smidge was delighted by the pudginess? And didn't they read all the agreeing comments attached to it? Everyone was like, "Awww!"

But yeah, I'm babbling, and you agreed with everything anyway, so I'm saying it for nothing. But I just don't get it, I guess. Some people. *shakes head*

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He's too... proper to be sleazy about the dating younger girls thing. In my mind, he's like the next George Clooney. George somehow dates twenty year old models and it doesn't bother me.

But I'm looking forward to old man jensen too. Twenty year olds will probably still want to do him, even at sixty.

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I think it's mostly because of a picture of Dean from I don't remember what ep, but he sitting at a bar and he looked a tad bit sleazy and I kind of loved him a little bit more, yanno.

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Because we have issues Michelle.

You love him for the sleaze. I love him for the douche. Sometimes I think I'm destined to be an abused housewife or something.

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Yeah, exactly.

Especially, as you said, since there are far more outrageous things than that in fandom.

Well, one person in alazysod's journal is now arguing that anything you write in fic is cool, but anything bad you say about an actor in a journal or on a messageboard is not cool. Which is some awesome logic. So RESPECT!!! and "live and let live" only applies to fanfic, I guess.

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I hope not. Besides, Amanda would be really jealous. :p

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Especially if I got to live in a trailer.

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Hey, I just wanted to say thank you for the post cause until I read it, I didn't really understand what the "respect" issue (or lack of as the case may be) was about. Now I do.

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I uhm ... What? I'm unclear as to what you're talking about, I haven't really commented on the respect issue other than to link to "anti" icons.

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you girls are totally cracking me up.

meanwhile, the thoughts i'm having of olderman!Jensen are making me use my HORNY SOPHIE ICON.

cuz dudes. have you seen JENSEN'S DADDY? He's like, mid-50s or something. Maybe older.

and Dude is a complete D.I.L.F.

Jensen's got his Mom's eyes in his Dad's face, lmao. OMFG. so he's gonna be So Damn Hawt when he hits prime time. Babeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

just makes me wanna lay down under him and DIE, DEDZ. THE END.

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Yeah. Sometimes I wish he would age and I could stay the same just so that my lust could be totally inappropriate later. *sigh*

But, he and I are the same age, so it won't be bad at all.

I know his dad was in Devour, but I can't for the life of me remember what he looks like. But your words give me hope that Jensen is going to be the hottest DILF ever.

Also? He and Jared will have beautiful children. :D

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I keep trying to remember what his dad looks like too, I think he was okay looking for an old guy but I have a feeling that Jensen's going to be much better looking.

Sometimes I wish he would age and I could stay the same just so that my lust could be totally inappropriate later

YES! Or, I want him to hop in a time machine, go into the future - take a picture and then come back. And you know, post the picture on the internet or have it published in a magazine so that I can see it.

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Right????!!!! Because I want him to be old and hot NOW so I can lust after his old hot ass while I'm still young and pretty. It's a THING. It won't be as... something when I'm also old and no longer hot. Since, you know, men only get HOTTER and girls just get wrinkly and saggy. UHG.

God. I hope I hope I hope that I remember this exact feeling in 30 years. Can you imagine what his eye crinkles are going to look like in 30 years!!?? *combusts*

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*nods* Part of me just keeps thinking that he'll be old and I'll be old and he'll just be another guy. Not an old hot guy, and that's not fair.

The eye crinkles are going to be amazing but I'm really looking forward to the grey and/or salt and peppered hair around his temple area

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grey and/or salt and peppered hair around his temple area

Nnnnngggh.

Jared's salt and peppered hair is going to be hot toooooooo.

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It really is. I just ... God, can they be old NOW?

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HAHAHAHAHA

you are hysterical.

here is jensen's daddy:

*adjusts TinHat over one eye*

Yes. Jared will have pretty Padacoy babies with Sandy, and Jensen will find his One True Love one day.

As far as age-inappropriate lust goes, I coulda like, been Jensen's babysitter when he was a boy.... ahem. But I understand he liked older girls back then so... (here's another awesome RL link for you in case you never saw it):
http://tvmakesyoustupid.com/2007/02/07/jensen-ackles-yes-hes-always-been-like-that/

have a lovely day.

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