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certainthings ([personal profile] certainthings) wrote2013-10-01 05:35 pm

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sometimes when I am out, I shout compliments at people inside my head. (the compliments are in my head - not the people)

examples:

THAT'S A GREAT SWEATER
YOUR HAIR IS FANTASTIC
HOLY CRAP YOU ARE REALLY ATTRACTIVE
THOSE PANTS LOOK GOOD ON YOU

I'm scared that one day, I'm going to accidentally do it out loud. and the person will look at me like, 'WTF?' and I'll just have to shrug and give them a look that says, 'oops, sorry. but it's okay. i am a professional crazy person.'

[identity profile] eilan.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
Do it.

Cory randomly waves at people all the time. It's amusing.

[identity profile] certainthings.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I could never do it on purpose. I would cry and throw up from the embarrassment.

How often do they wave back?

[identity profile] eilan.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
not very often, but he always gets so smug when they do.

[identity profile] unperfectwolf.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
I complement random strangers all the time. And wave to them and say hi. I am from a small town, and live in a smallish town now, but I did this all the time when I was in DT Seattle. SO.

[identity profile] certainthings.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
when I'm at work, and there is a customer in front of me, I can and sometimes do say complimentary things to them, but if you're able to just walk by someone and compliment them on the fly, you are very good.

[identity profile] unperfectwolf.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
Haha, yeah, no, i can totally so it on the fly. I think it's actually easier, because there's no expectation that a convo start from it.

[identity profile] certainthings.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
I applaud you

[identity profile] cherrymmm.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
I compliment strangers all the time. It's great for you and you never know when you might make someone's day. I chased a guy down at the mall one day because he smelled so amazing I had to find out what he was wearing. I then bought it for my bf so I could smell it all the time1 Occasionally there is a creeper who thinks you are hitting on them but mostly people just appreciate it.

[identity profile] certainthings.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that I could shout a compliment at a stranger as I walked past them, but if you can? That is fantastic. Did the guy you chased down think that you were a bit odd?

[identity profile] cherrymmm.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
I don't actually SHOUT compliments. lol But I do give them compliments all the time. It is not unusual for me to have random conversations with a stranger in Target for example. I'm just a talker.

The guy I chased down thought it was funny. I had my mom with me and I was dragging her along and she was embarrassed and trying to shush me and he was laughing at us bickering like little kids.

[identity profile] alwaysenduphere.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 06:22 am (UTC)(link)
I have no filter so like, I say these types of things to people all the time. Sometimes its awkward but usually not, since I see the same 200ish people ever yweek.

[identity profile] stir-of-echoes.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
I am shouting "OMG! So cute." In my head while reading this :)

[identity profile] jeyhawk.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I do that too. :)

[identity profile] ames1010.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
You'd probably make someone's day!!
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[identity profile] meesasometimes.livejournal.com 2013-10-02 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, I can't help myself, usually it's women and I tell them they are in the running for my best dressed award today, or I'm like, "this whole look, you are doing it so right". Those are my standby's. I'm like the fashion police. Self-deputized of course. LOL.

I've only once really said something outloud that was meant to be in my head. It was this scruffy guy walking out of target, think Jared Padalecki in his lounge pants after a rough night, and he was wearing this long grey wool coat. OMG HOT....and so I told him so, well, in the jacket, I said you looks so hot in THAT COAT. Does that make it better? Nah, probably not.

[identity profile] skadi.livejournal.com 2013-10-04 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, you are awesome. AND I WOULD SHOUT THAT AT YOU.

[identity profile] giantlovetingle.livejournal.com 2014-02-01 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
I do this too. Sometimes I do actually tell people. Only the tame stuff, like "Your handbag is great" but even then, people still look at you funny. Which is weird. That handbag IS REALLY GREAT so take the damn compliment.